Rsync –update with symlinks

This is related to this question but I don't think the answer exactly applies here.

I have two servers that sync directories between each other. These directories contain files and symlinks. On server B, I sync from server A with this command: rsync -auv A:dir/ dir/

What I want: Any file or symlink on A that is different and newer than the corresponding file or symlink on B is synced.

What actually happens: Any file on A that is different and newer than the corresponding file on B is synced. Any symlink on A that is different than the corresponding symlink on B is synced, regardless of timestamp.

The man page for rsync has this (emphasis mine):

-u, –update

This forces rsync to skip any files which exist on the destination and have a modified time that is newer than the source file. (If an existing destination file has a modification time equal to the source file's, it will be updated if the sizes are different.) Note that this does not affect the copying of symlinks or other special files.

So this is the expected behavior. Why is this? Is there a way around it? Or, is there an alternate solution to the overall goal, which is to get these directories in sync after a server has been offline for some time and missed data?

My rsync version is 3.0.9.

Example: I set up 2 directories, Adir and Bdir, each containing a file and a symlink with different contents:

$ ls -l Adir/ Bdir/
Adir/:
total 0
-rw-r--r-- 1 kevin kevin  5 May 27 18:00 file
lrwxrwxrwx 1 kevin kevin 10 May 27 18:00 symlink -> /some/file

Bdir/:
total 0
-rw-r--r-- 1 kevin kevin  6 May 27 17:00 file
lrwxrwxrwx 1 kevin kevin 16 May 27 17:00 symlink -> /some/other/file

Running rsync --dry-run -auv Adir/ Bdir/ outputs this:

sending incremental file list
./
file
symlink -> /some/file

sent 101 bytes  received 21 bytes  244.00 bytes/sec
total size is 15  speedup is 0.12 (DRY RUN)

Which is what I expect. It copies (or would if not in dry run) both the file and symlink because they are newer. However running rsync --dry-run -auv Bdir/ Adir/ outputs this:

sending incremental file list
./
symlink -> /some/other/file

sent 104 bytes  received 18 bytes  244.00 bytes/sec
total size is 22  speedup is 0.18 (DRY RUN)

Even though Bdir/symlink is older than Adir/symlink it still gets syned.