Windows – How to (what program) kill a process in Windows that has been inactive for X seconds and is running in multiple instances

I have multiple instances of a programm running and from time to time it stops responding.
I need to check if processes of X have not been responding for >X seconds, and if yes, kill this exact process – not all instances of X, but this special one.

Monitoring programms like Kiwi or Process Explorer can only shutdown either process with PID X or ALL instanced of process X.

Can anyone share a programm/script that gives me the ability to solve this problem ?

Closer information:
It is a game that i start on different accounts and sometimes the game fails to enter a session and simply stops responding, leading the account to be AFK ingame and simply wait until the session stops and then the account is queueing up again – when this happens often, there are penalties or even bans… If the account enters the session normally nothing goes wrong for anyone.