If you want to reload manually, go to Settings \ Preferences, then the MISC tab and change Enable to Disable under File Status Auto-detection. If instead you want it to update automatically without the prompt, then leave it on Enable and check Update silently.
There is no way to do this in official code. However, if you can apply a patch and compile from source, then you can try the Adjustable Feedback mode patch, available here. You might also be interested to contribute to the discussion about that topic here.
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You can do this in one of four ways.