If I disconnect DEV-AWEB5
Define "disconnect", if you will. My guess is you kept the box up but took SQL Server down.
I cannot connect to the Group Listener (DevListener), but I can ping it and it will respond to my ping
That's because the listener is just a virtual network name (VNN) within the WSFC cluster resource group for the represented availability group. Your DEV_AWEB5 node still owns the cluster resource group, but it's just the AG cluster resource most likely that is in a failed state. The VNN must still be online (expected behavior). It's simply pointing to whatever node is owning that resource group (in this case, DEV-AWEB5). In fact, if you had PowerShell remoting enabled, and you ran the following:
Invoke-Command -ComputerName "YourListenerName" -ScriptBlock { $env:computername }
Likewise, if you can RDP into DEV-AWEB5 (provided you have the capability and accessibility, etc.) then you'd be able to RDP using the listener name (mstsc /v:YourListenerName). It's just a VNN.
The return of that would be the computer name of your owning node.
By all of your symptoms, I'd be willing to bet that you've reached your failover threshold. The failover threshold determines how many times the cluster will attempt to failover your resource group in a specified time period. The default of these values max failovers n - 1 (where n is the count of nodes) in a period of 6 hours. You can see that through the following WSFC PowerShell command:
Get-ClusterGroup -Name "YourAgName" |
Select-Object Name, FailoverThreshold, FailoverPeriod
That just gives you the settings (which you can modify if you so choose, of course).
The best way to prove that this is the case for you, you would need to generate the cluster log (the system event logs only go into detail as far as " has failed", or something like that).
Get-ClusterLog -Node "YourClusterNode" -TimeSpan <amount_of_minutes_since_failure>
That'll by default get put into the "C:\Windows\Cluster\Reports" folder, and the file is called "Cluster.log".
If you were to open up that cluster log, you should be able to find the following string in there, indicating exactly what happened and why it happened:
Not failing over group [YourClusterGroupName], failoverCount [# of failovers], failover threshold [failover threshold value], nodeAvailCount [node available count].
The above message is simply WSFC telling you that it will not failover your group because it's happened too much (you hit the threshold).
Why does this happen? Simply to prevent the Ping-Pong effect of cluster resources going back and forth too frequently between nodes.
Whereas this would be common to hit these thresholds in failover testing, in production it would typically point to a problem that should be investigated.
Best Answer
What you describe is normal behavior for SSMS, at least all the times I've done failover testing.
But Management Studio is a poor tool to test this type of thing. Best practice for an application is to have retry logic built into it that will upon error dispose of the current connection and re-establish, which will connect to the now primary side. And SSMS does not do that.
I've never seen or caught SSMS auto-magically re-connecting to the primary side once it's connection is established.