The problem is twofold:
First Firebird 3 uses tighter security and has the old authentication mechanism disabled by default. So clients depending on older connection libraries will not work out of the box.
To allow the old authentication mechanism to work, the following setting needs to be set in firebird.conf:
AuthServer = Legacy_Auth, Srp, Win_Sspi
(be sure to remove the # prefix)
Second, the pure-java wire protocol implementation of Jaybird (the Firebird JDBC driver) uses an outdated authentication mechanism that is not supported by this Legacy_Auth option. Using Jaybird to connect to Firebird 3 at this time will only work if you use the native option (with the jdbc:firebirdsql:native: URL-prefix and jaybird2x.dll and fbclient.dll).
Addendum 1
Firebird 3 (since Alpha 1) has now also implemented the old authentication method used by Jaybird, so Jaybird will now also work without using the native library (as long as the legacy authentication is enabled, and the user has been setup with the legacy usermanager).
See also Jaybird and Firebird 3
Addendum 2
Jaybird 3 and higher support the more secure Srp authentication model out of the box, and Jaybird 3.0.4 introduced support for the wire protocol encryption. This means that it can connect to Firebird 3 without additional configuration.
Best Answer
There is no history of queries in Firebird. As indicated by Verace in the comments, you can look at one of my answers on Stack Overflow that provides an alternative: using the trace API.
However the trace API requires active monitoring, which has some overhead. As an alternative you could also look at FBScanner, which acts as a proxy between Firebird and your client, which allows it to register the prepared and executed queries.