Receiving push notifications for another user that was removed from the app

Your question is really confusing but let me try to answer it the best I can.

Let me start by mentioning that this is why I hate Facebook contact syncing. People (like myself) don't use their real info and when you sync data you end up with a mess in your address book. I personally would suggest that you don't do it that way. My contacts that I set up manually are waaaay more accurate than merging info from Facebook into my address book. It takes more work, but it's worth it.

To tag someone in Facebook you have to connect it to their Facebook account and use their Facebook name. You can tag photos with your own name but it won't link up to the person's FB account.

Also are you using the newest version of iPhoto? And are these photos that you are tagging being uploaded and shared from the iPhoto app itself? You can tag people in iPhoto and then upload the photo album from iPhoto and it will bring over all of the data for the people you tagged to FB. But like I said, you have to tag them using their FB name and not their real name for it to be able to link to their FB account.

As far as I know, there is no way to accomplish what you are trying to do at this point in time.

You can change vibration settings by opening the Settings.app and selecting the "Sounds" option. The two first options are "Vibrate on Ring" and "Vibrate on Silent". Turn these off to disable all vibrations. However, this will disable vibrations system wide for all apps, not just Messages.

To get as close as possible to disabling vibrations for just the messages app:

1. Open Settings.app and navigate to "Sounds" -> "Text Tone".
2. Scroll to the top of the page and select "Vibration"

3. Scroll to bottom of page (under "Custom") and select "Create New Vibration".

   Note: you can't create 0 vibration as you have to tap to start the "recording". However, you can tap it very lightly to start the "recording".

4. Tap the screen very lightly and let the recording go until it stops. Like I mentioned, it is perfect, but very close - especially if you tap very lightly.

5. Save the Recording (something like "Minimal Vibe") and assign that to you text tone vibration pattern.

Keep in mind, it is possible to override that vibration pattern when you set custom ringtones or vibration patterns on individual contacts, so if it isn't working quite right for you for certain contacts, be sure to check those settings. Or, the alternative would be to set the "Minimal Vibe" settings for just some particular contacts.