MacOS – Mac OS X Yosemite Facebook photo posts to OSX Album only

The best solution is to use the system as the developers intended, despite the inconvenience.

For Albums created on the iOS device using the Photos app (I believe the same applies for Events created in iPhoto on iOS):

Deleting a picture from an album removes it only from the album. Deleting a picture from the Camera Roll deletes the photo from the device—but it may still be part of your Photo Stream. Deleting a photo from Photo Stream removes it from the stream, but will not remove the photo from devices on which it has been included in Albums or Events. ᔥApple — iCloud: How to delete photos from your Photo Stream

There is no magic incantation that will reveal photos you've deleted from albums.

I use If This Than That to do stuff like this. It's like glue for internet services.

There's a bunch of recipes that post Facebook wall updates to Twitter automatically for you. Here's one: http://ifttt.com/recipes/1854

This would save you from having to open a Twitter client. But now you've got posts in Facebook truncated in Twitter because of the length restrictions.

Why not just switch to a better Twitter client? One that has TweetMarker support?

If you want to try the best-of-the-best but bleeding edge check out the currently-in-beta Tweetbot for OS X. It's a sweet, sweet client and with TweetMarker support you can open it, tweet a new tweet, and then close it down and it doesn't lose your position. It even syncs the position other TweetMarker-enabled clients.

If you're not willing to run beta software try Twitterrific -- also has TweetMarker support and also doesn't lose your position if you open, tweet, and then close it down again.

If you use one of these Twitter clients and combine them with an IFTTT recipe that reposts and tweet you make with the #fb hashtag to Facebook you'll be all set. Here's the recipe I use.