IPhone – Problem with text messaging on new xs iphone with shared itunes account

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We just recently got the new iphone xs. We have a shared account with several devices. For some reason, when I text my daughter it goes to my husband or vice versa. The same thing happens when my husband or daughter try to text each other, it comes to my phone and not theirs. My husband has tried to update every setting but it's very frustrating. Any thoughts? I know it's been mentioned setting up separate iTunes accounts for each person, but would it allow us to share already purchased or downloaded music because we have hundreds of songs.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks. AJ

Best Answer

You can have separate Apple IDs for Messages and FaceTime while keeping the same Apple ID for iTunes & App Store. Create an Apple ID for each person, then log into this Apple ID in Settings under Messages and FaceTime, leaving the existing Apple ID for iTunes and App Store purchases.