iTunes/iPhone syncing is done on a "per Mac" basis. In iTunes Preferences, go to Devices, and check the box for "Prevent iPods, iPhones, and iPads from syncing automatically". This will prevent iTunes from opening when a device is plugged in.
UPDATE: There used to be in previous versions of iTunes, in the old "Syncing" Preferences, a way to disable automatic syncing and that prevented iTunes from even opening. But it seems they have changed the behavior because searching for answers on other sites yield the same behavior but in previous versions of iTunes. I set this preference ages ago, so the preference must be holding over.
In response to your comments:
iTunes still starts, still does some
kind of mini-sync, but doesn't
recognise the name of the phone or
allow access to its contents.
Are you sure you are syncing with the iTunes install you originally started with? Syncing is strictly a one-to-one relationship for iPhones and iTunes. Once you sync an iPhone to an iTunes install and wish to sync with a different one (like on another Mac), you are then forced to clear the phone and start anew.
My iTunes behaves the way you are describing, but when I plug in my iPhone, I get the "mini-sync" you mention because that's the device registering with the OS and iTunes that it exists and iTunes puling needed info to interact with it. Can't really get around that one.
it would prevent the machine being
used at all for syncing, no?
No. You could still sync if you wanted, but that's if you are syncing with the iTunes install that recognizes the phone. Otherwise, see my comment above.
BTW, save the downvoting for the really egregious answers. Downvoting costs points. Otherwise, just leave it alone.
While not a SuperUser-compatible answer, since the computer interface is missing, I just did the following:
- Open the iPod app
- Go to Videos
- Swipe over a video from right to left
- Press Delete
- Confirm
- Done!
No computer needed. Also works for music
Best Answer
I hope one of these will help you:
Have you given it permission to access photos and videos?
Try open apple software update on your PC, and check for another update.
Try restart your iPhone.
Try restart your PC.
Try with another lightning cable.