As @bmike said, Internet Sharing hides a lot of complexity behind a very simple interface, and some of your questions can't be answered authoritatively without interviewing some of the Apple engineers behind it. But that won't stop me from taking a stab at it...
1) AirPort is different from the other interface types because in order to share over AirPort, your Mac has to actually create the wireless network (as opposed to just providing service over an existing ethernet, FireWire, etc connection). This means that InternetSharing needs to have a bunch of info about how to create the wireless network: network name (SSID), channel, security, etc.
2) Resharing over the same ethernet interface is useful under some circumstances. For example, on my home network my ISP provides limited number of static IP addresses for my use. I run a Mac doing the equivalent of Internet Sharing (actually, I set up the daemons manually as @Spiff recommended) to reshare over the same ethernet. Result: if I put a computer on my home ethernet and config it via DHCP, I get a private (behind-the-firewall) IP address from my virtually unlimited internal pool. If I manually config the computer with one of the public IPs, I get full unfitered internet access, but use up one of my limited public IP pool. Because they're both on the same network, "moving" a computer behind or in front of the firewall is just a simple configuration switch.
On the other hand, if you did this same trick on an ethernet network that already had a DHCP server, computers attaching to the network would randomly get configuration from one server or the other, leading to unpredictability, confusion, and hair-pulling. It's definitely a use-only-if-you-know-what-you're-doing feature. Fortunately, Internet Sharing is smart: if it detects another DHCP server on "its" private network, it shuts itself off to avoid trouble.
3) I don't know of a way to change the private IP range on an IS-created wireless network. On the other hand, it shouldn't really matter, since the network is being created by Internet Sharing, and therefore it doesn't have to worry about conflicts with any existing network numbering.
4) You can add interfaces with Apple's USB Ethernet Adapter. Get some USB hubs, and pile them on!
I found a relatively simple solution not involving a system restart - just bring the WiFi interface down and then back up:
$ sudo ifconfig en0 down
$ sudo ifconfig en0 up
In my case en0
is the AirPort interface of my MacBook Air.
Note that turning the AirPort off and on again doesn't work, but bringing the interface down does the job.
Best Answer
This feature request is now active in their development. However, it can take some years to get it because of limited resources in their development. I will let you know when I get more pieces of information about the issue. There are some tickets which has to be solved before such a feature can be implemented.