How can i get imessages that i missed when imessage was off

I couldn't figure out how to see only messages sent by other people, but you can see the text of all messages (and some other strings) by running:

for f in ~/Library/Containers/com.apple.iChat/Data/Library/Messages/Archive/*/*.ichat;do plutil -convert xml1 "$f" -o -|ruby -rplist -e 'puts Plist.parse_xml(STDIN.read)["$objects"].select{|x|x.is_a?(Hash)&&x["NS.string"]}.map{|x|x["NS.string"]}';done

sudo gem install plist installs the plist gem.

I'll will show as sent at 3:45.

Your phone only matters in terms of the message being delivered/read.